Lets wiegh in .. with you watching me

 I see that Samantha Brick describes herself as a Trophy wife and also states that her husband keeps her weight in check even prescribing how much she is allowed to weigh. although some may say this is controlling.. If it works for them why not. She is obviously healthy for it and in love.
I myself married when I was heavy and am glad that I married a man who was in love with me rather than someone who is a fat fetish. ( or else I may be having to keep my weight up which I am sure would prove easuier that the task of loosing!)

 Anyway I am fortunate like Samantha Brick to be married to a Husband who is ten years older than me, calls me his beautiful princess and cannot do enough for me and is proud to be seen with me. All this despite me not looking like a poupette.

However maybe this has been my undoing.. It is hard to look in the mirror and see something that others find unappealing when you are loved and half a good esteem.. It always comes as a shock to me when someone says something about me being fat!.. Anyway I am.

So here is the deal. Why not sponsor me in my weight loss journey so we can step on the scales together. My weigh ins are going to be monthly on the 19th and my posts will hopefully be regular.

Back to Samantha Brick.. It is quite concerning that she says that if  poorly that she keeps out of his way as he is not equpied to deal with her unless she is bright and cheery. It makes me think of how difficult it must be for partners of people with MS surely the love does not stop and the relationships can become strained.

The MS Society offer suport to people with MS swhich is important as sometimes the strain on the family can be burdomsome. this is why I would like you to p[op over to the page and sponsor me.

Diets always start tommorow - Here are some reasons to start today

I am not very strong willed and find some things hard to resist. I think I delude myself that I will be OK if I eat a little too much and that diets start tomorrow.

So here are a list of  some of the reasons I want to loose weight.

a) To reduce my voluminous bosom
b)  Reduce the paranoia that goes with the above and being over weight.. Sometimes people are talking about my earrings or something else
c) To feel more able to look after my daughter and to  fit on the swings next to her.
d) To be taken seriously by those sizest people who apparently would not employ a large person because they are lazy
e) So that when I wake up I will not be so surprised that I have!
f) To avoid as much as possible situation of having someone visiting me and not being able to do or say anything through a stroke or heart attack.
g) To kiss goodbye to breast pain
h) To be able to go to the Doctors and not be told my problem is my weight
i) To save myself and the NHS money
j) To feel in controlR
k) To prove that I can.
l) To wear a sexy hot red dress without bumps in the wrong places
m)To have one size of clothing in my Wardrobe
n) So I can jump again.. I have no bounce in my ankles
o) To see my muscles
p) So that I can but some super retro clothing
q) So I do not get mistaken  for  Rusty Lee, Alison from Big Brother or the latest large black contestant on a reality show.
r) So My suitcase is smaller when I go on holiday
s) So If I ever go back to acting the only roles I get will not only be comedy
t) Never having to risk assess furniture before I sit on it
u) I can wear sports clothes without them looking like leisure clothes
v) S every event in my diary does not become a slimming target
w) Health Farm gowns fit me
x)  rated!
y)To be a better Role model to my daughter
zzzz) Seep betterReduce snoring

If you can identiufy with any of these reasons please do leave a comment or sponser me on my journey http://www.justgiving.com/twothingsIwanthttp://www.justgiving.com/twothingsIwant

A beginning

Inspired by the hashtag #twothingsIwant  have started this blog..I want chocolate cake and to be slim.. This is the story of my journey and I hope you will sponser me  as Attempt to raise money for the  Mend charity http://www.mendcentral.org/contactusform

Left overs

Left overs are traditionally not to be wasted.
If you eat them your clothes will be larger waisted.
With buttons that pop and zips that go ping.
Except for the Elasticated waist or tent like thing
So leave the left overs, bin them, keep them or send them back
If you eat them the weight will go back

10 stone to loose

 About me

 Hello My name is Denise and I have 10 stone to loose to get to a healthy weight loss. I have tried many diets previously and they all work, I just have a large appetitive and not a lot of motivation. My motivation wanes when I see food... hence the title and logo... two things I want...cake and a trimmer waist.

 I have known many people who have Ms someone of them friends and some in my family. I am struck by the way MS can change people’s lives so drastically and on day to day basis. I have a strong sense of being fortunate that I have lived all adult life as a large lady without and drastic complications or feeling unattractive. However as I get older I feel that the weight has to come off as it may be slowing me down and also reading about the health implications has brought this home o me even more. I recently had a car accident and it affected my hips. When going to see the nurse she assumed incorrectly that it was because of my weight. I told her it was not the case... also realising how lucky I am that the weight had not caused extra stress on my internal organs or my bones.

I have a young daughter who is a little conscious of my weight and would like a slimmer more active mummy too. 

Please do go along to my just giving page and donate if you can. Your comments on the blog  would also be most welcome.